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Applying to get married in the Netherlands

Are you planning to get married? If you intend to get married, you must notify the municipality of this at least 2 weeks and not more than 1 year before the wedding.

There are certain requirements for marriage that everyone must meet:

  • you must be at least 18 years of age;
  • you cannot marry someone who is already married or in a civil partnership;
  • you cannot be related to one other, e.g. grandparent, grandchild, parent, child or sibling.

Are you getting married to a non-Dutch citizen in the Netherlands? Then different conditions apply.

If you intend to marry someone of the same sex, you can get married in the Netherlands in the presence of the civil registrar. This is called a civil marriage, and you are only legally married once you have had a civil ceremony. In addition, it is possible to have a religious ceremony in some churches, but not all churches allow it. Check first with the church where you want to have the ceremony. A church wedding can only take place after the civil ceremony.

If you are getting married outside the Netherlands and are not yet 18 years old, your marriage will only be recognised in the Netherlands once both spouses have reached 18 years of age.

This is how it works for you

Your (future) place of residence falls under:

Here is some information from your municipality.

Municipality of Midden-Delfland: Applying to get married

You register your marriage with the municipality, providing all the details about yourself, your partner and your witnesses. This can be done up to 2 weeks before the wedding date. You can do it online or at the town hall.

Arrange directly online

Make an appointment

(015) 380 41 11 of Afspraak maken voor melding voorgenomen huwelijk | Gemeente Midden-Delfland (

If neither you nor your partner live in the Netherlands, you must give notice of your marriage in the municipality of Den Haag (The Hague). You can find more information on how to register a marriage for Dutch citizens living outside the Netherlands at the website.

When you register your marriage, you make a number of choices, which you communicate to the municipality. These choices relate to the ceremony and the venue. The costs depend on your wishes and the possibilities of the municipality.


The ceremony is the official part of your marriage. You can choose from:

  • marriage free of charge;
  • simple ceremony;
  • elaborate ceremony.

If you opt for an elaborate ceremony, you determine who leads the ceremony. You have the following choices:

  • A wedding registrar from the municipality. The wedding registrar will contact you a few weeks before the wedding date to introduce themselves and find out more about you and your future spouse. If you have a preference for a wedding registrar, inform the municipality of this.
  • A family member or acquaintance. If you would like a family member or an acquaintance to be your own wedding registrar, contact the municipality.

Wedding venue

You can get married in various places. You can choose from:

  • a wedding venue of the municipality;
  • a wedding venue of your own choice. Notify the municipality of your venue. To do so, call (015) 380 41 11 or take a look at [](or pass it on via You may have to pay for a wedding venue of your own choice.

  • Marriage or partnership without ceremony, free on Mondays at 9:00 am and 9:30 am 
  • Marriage or partnership with ceremony, € 495.45 from Monday to Friday, from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. 
  • Conversion from partnership to marriage, € 495.45 from Monday to Friday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.     
  • Extra cost for another time, weekend or public holiday, € 92.10 only for a ceremony with ceremony 
  • Extra cost for one-off location, € 233.10 only for a ceremony with ceremony 
  • Extra cost for a one-off wedding official, € 81.60 only for a ceremony with ceremony     
  • Marriage booklet, € 47.85 
  • Community witness, € 26.25 price per witness, only with a free marriage and free partnership 
  • Civil status copy, € 14.30 
  • Cancel marriage, partnership or conversion, € 209.85 (also with a booked free marriage and free partnership)

Questions about this topic?

Contact the Municipality of Midden-Delfland

Visiting address

Anna van Raesfeltstraat 37

2636HX Schipluiden

Opening hours
Last updated on 21 September 2022