Municipality of Amstelveen: acknowledging parenthood of your child

You will need to bring the following for the appointment: 

• A valid identity document for yourself. 
• A valid identity document for the mother. 
• If the child to be officially acknowledged is under the age of 12, the mother’s written consent to the official acknowledgement, unless she is present. 
• If the child to be officially acknowledged is between the ages of 12 and 16, the consent of the mother and the child in person or in writing. 
• If the child to be officially acknowledged is aged 16 or over, the child must be present. The child must choose their surname and consent to the official acknowledgement. The mother’s consent is not required.

Please note: if this is your first child (younger than 16) from this relationship and you want register the surname when acknowledging parenthood, then the mother must also come with you. 

If you acknowledge parenthood of a child, you automatically have parental authority. You can also choose for only the mother to have parental authority. For this, you must both come to the town hall in person.

Official acknowledgement and choice of surname are free of charge. You pay a fee for an akte van erkenning (acknowledgement of parenthood certificate).

The acknowledgement cannot always be processed immediately. This depends on the personal situation of the child and the person acknowledging the child. For example, acknowledgement takes longer if the child was born before 1985 or if the person having the child officially recognised does not hold Dutch citizenship.